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Day 352 of Random (hopefully inspired) Thought. Today I Am Thankful For…(NOT) Failure

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Day 352 of Random (hopefully inspired) Thought. Today I Am Thankful For…(NOT) Failure

This year has been a year. We have been dealing with the pain of loss and the repercussions of bad decisions made. Making the year feel like one failure after another. If you are anything like me, that feeling of disappointing God and your loved ones is the most horrible in the world, and wallowing in that devastation becomes a playground for the accuser of our faith to remind us of our failures, faults, and flaws. But God has been teaching me that our struggles and shortcomings do not equal failure. Not to God. Where we see the bad we’ve done, our limitations, and mishaps, God sees opportunity.

“For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:17-18 (NIV)

Let me say it again (for those in the back): struggling and falling flat on our faces does NOT mean we are failing. It means we are being refined and molded into the image of Him whose thoughts toward us are good. Struggles suck (yeah, I did use that word), they are painful and uncomfortable, and they make us feel like horrible humans. But, praise be to God, who tells us our struggles are momentary and working in us to achieve eternal glory. Don’t despise the struggle, friends, it’s a sign that God loves us.

Today I am thankful for (NOT) failure.

DAY 139 (2014)

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Even if you fail again and again. Every time you fail, fail better.

Even if you fail again and again. Every time you fail, fail better.

I have a new favorite quote (okay maybe second favorite, I can’t relegate Maya Angelou to second place). I happened upon it yesterday in a most unlikely way. However, it was apropos to how my weekend went. On Friday I wrote about my friend who had taken up the burden of paying the price for his dream. On Saturday and Sunday the dream/goal theme continued and it dawned on me that maybe, just maybe God was trying to tell me something (yeah, I know I am bit on the slow side at times). My quote is from Samuel Beckett and it goes like this: “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail BETTER.” Why fail better, instead of try better? Because failure is what brings us one step closer to our dreams. How? Because every time we fail we learn what NOT to do. Failure is the lesson. Trying is NOT the lesson it is the tool that leads us to either success or failure. Trying is the means, the avenue by which the lesson is learned. Today I have been thinking a lot about goals and dreams. A lot about trying and failing. I hear this saying a lot, “life is a gamble”, I don’t think that’s true at all. Life is not a gamble, life is a classroom a place we either learn to succeed or to give up. In gambling the doer has no control over the game or it’s outcome, because, well, it’s a gamble.  In a classroom we are given all the tools necessary to succeed, what we do with the tools is our choice to make. Today I pray our choice is this: Try again. Fail gain. Fail BETTER.

For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7).

So what’s the plan? Fail better.