
Look into the mirror and understand, we are NOT what others say we are. We are who God created us to be.
I saw the music video to the song, Try, today. It is by Grammy award winning artist Colbie Caillat. The video, I have to be honest, brought me to tears. Not because it was sad, but because it was beautiful and honest. I am a female and the standards that I am judged by many times are harsher and more critical than say, the standards my brother is judged by. Not because I am less somehow, but because while my brother will be judged on his abilities. Many times before people ever find out what I am capable of, I am judged by my looks. Am I slim enough, pretty enough? These are questions that many times plague the female population. The lyrics of the song lead to a very important question: “Get your sexy on. Don’t be shy, girl. Take it off. This is what you want, to belong, so they like you. Do you like you?” Do YOU like you? Such a simply question, yet so profound. Why? Because many times we can’t answer. We have become so busy trying to become what society thinks we should be, that we don’t know who we are ourselves. So how could we even begin to know if we like ourselves? It took me a while to like me, and I can honestly say that I do. I may not be the prettiest girl out there, but I am loved by the people in my world. I like my laughter (I love to laugh). I like my personality (stubborn, nerdy, and funny… it’s an awesome combination). We are created in God’s image, each of us has a purpose and I can guarantee that purpose is NOT to fit into society’s cookie cutter standard of “cool”. So stop trying so hard. Be who you are. We weren’t made to fit in, we were created to STAND OUT!
“So God created mankind in His own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female He created them” (Genesis 1:27).
So what’s the plan? Be me. Because I like me.
Here’s the link to the video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXoZLPSw8U8&feature=kp). Enjoy!

