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I have hidden Thy word in my heart. (Picture by Lisa R)

I have hidden Thy word in my heart.
(Picture by Lisa R)

Judges 3. “The Israelites did evil in the eyes of the Lord; they forgot the Lord their God and served the Baals and the Asherahs. The anger of the Lord burned against Israel so that He sold them into the hands of Cushan-Rishathaim king of Aram Naharaim, to whom the Israelites were subject for eight years. But when they cried out to the Lord, He raised up for them a deliverer, Othniel son of Kenaz, Caleb’s younger brother, who saved them. The Spirit of the Lord came on him, so that he became Israel’s judge and went to war. The Lord gave Cushan-Rishathaim king of Aram into the hands of Othniel, who overpowered him.  So the land had peace for forty years, until Othniel son of Kenaz died. Again the Israelites did evil in the eyes of the Lord, and because they did this evil the Lord gave Eglon king of Moab power over Israel” (Verses 7-12). Do you see the cycle? Israel sins, God sends a deliverer who saves them. They live in peace serving God until the Judge dies, and then they forget EVERYTHING. What?! After reading this chapter I had this thought: What is my faith based on? Israel’s faith it seemed was based on their leaders. When the leader was alive they followed God, but when he died they followed the god of whoever was closest. Their relationship with God was not RELATIONSHIP, but religion. They worshiped because that was what everyone else was doing. They served God because that was what the leader said to do. Therefore, because their faith didn’t run any deeper than that they were swayed by any and everything that caught their fancy. God does not want our religion, He wants our relationship. What’s the difference? Religion is performance based it is rules and regulations that you have to adhere to, less you be deemed less worthy. Relationship is a matter of the heart. It is not based on rules and regulation. Instead it is a desire to truly serve, to truly be a part of this friendship with God. It is a willing choice to move forward in intimate friendship. Friendship does not require the friend to always be right before your eyes for the it to last. See the difference? Israel followed rules, thus when the ruler died so did their faith. God is not looking for rule followers (although He does desire obedience), instead He is looking for heart followers. He wants relationship. 

DAy 112

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loveI have been dating my boyfriend for a few years now, and up until today we have never had an argument (not for lack of trying). There was a part of me that worried about this, because clearly I am not perfect. I make mistakes daily (it’s almost an epidemic), yet he had never gotten angry or had a grievance (that he verbalized). Well today he did. No, he didn’t yell or scream. But he was honest about what was bothering him. He didn’t speak to hurt my feelings, he didn’t attack me. He merely wanted to make his feelings known. It was weird because although I knew he was upset, it didn’t feel like anger. It felt like…love. Weird, right? The whole time he was telling me his issue, I keep thinking to myself, “Wow, he really cares about me”. Yes, what he said stung, but it was also true. The fact that he was honest and forthright is something I appreciate because I could see the sense in what he said and I could see the areas that I needed to change. I learned something today. Love does not always sound pretty. Sometimes the people who love you the most are the ones that are willing to say, “Hey, you need to change this”. Today, love sounded upset, but it still sounded like LOVE.

So what am I thankful for today? Honest love.